I really want to have a conversation with the person who said it gets easier with time. Of course it does- we get used to it.
Trying to figure out life is overwhelming. Period. Trying to figure everything out at being 23 years old is a mission. I mean, it doesn’t stop does it. First have to deal with studying, exams, assignments etc etc. Now, its choosing which direction I want to set my life in for the next 10 years. I mean I have trouble deciding what to wear the next day, how is society expecting me to decide for the next 10 years in a couple months? Seems like another rendition of mission impossible to me.
After being in hard-core University life for almost 6 years, I can finally say I am done with studying. But then, the nerd inside me gets bored of not having challenging new material to study? Like, brain please decide – I am already confused out of my mind.
Now this post is by no means a reflection of my up and down mental health, nor is it a dark post. This is my sarcastic brain combined with lame humour trying to tackle this onset of societal expectations with a new lens. True, nobody has really said directly to me ” so hey what are your next steps, where are you taking your career”.. but I see it in their faces every time I tell them I am enjoying life and taking one day at a time and that I want to make sure every work I do makes me happy. So yeah, I am putting my peace of mind first. And why not? I mean… i did ruin my peace of mind for the last 23 years just to make sure I graduated with my head held high.
All of this is so overwhelming sometimes. Too much too soon. I wish everything could just move with the pace of Canadian winter… slow and long… but not dark please. Enough darkness already, sheesh.
Oh well, I guess the next time someone asks me about my next steps, my answer will be ” I’m chilling, and you? “.